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Ok friends, when you think about porn, do you immediately turn off? Yes, we hear it. It’s 2023, and yet it is yet It’s not easy to find porn you really want to watch, ie a hot site, actually good porn that doesn’t overwhelmingly prioritize the male gaze or male orgasm. Sure, you can wander through the videos to find one where female pleasure and female orgasms are the focus — but even then, there’s a distinct sense that because of the way it’s filmed, there’s still a man calling the shots. shootings. Let’s be honest, even if you’re watching it with a male partner, you might feel like the porn you’re trying to enjoy isn’t for you. And that can make it harder to lose yourself in the story or the sensations as you’d like—the way you must to be able to, with good porn.
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In other words: where are the porn sites that cater to the female gaze, that celebrate female sexuality in all its beautiful forms, and that don’t objectify women in a way that will make you itch to take a shower immediately after viewing (in a bad way?) Where are the porn sites that feel current and up to date with what we want from sexual media today?
Fear no more, friend, because we’ve found some legitimately great porn sites for you, the modern woman who loves herself. If you’re tired of porn that seems overwhelmingly straight and male-centric, you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the following selection of sites. And while we’re at it, it might be a good time to treat yourself to some new sex toys to really turn up the heat.
Quick PSA, though: be careful and don’t browse this on your desk, because you’ll be accessing some NSFW sites from now on. Click carefully and when it is time for youhave fun!
A version of this story was published in April 2018.
Quinn
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Audio porn remains a favorite for porn, and while it’s not the same as visual porn, it’s something you can understand knowing it’s been made ethically and with your tastes in mind. Quinnfor example, is particularly cool with its super user-friendly interface, sensual and totally dreamy vocals, and curated playlists that include all your tastes. And if audio love hits all the right buttons for you, try our favorite love podcasts to keep the good times rolling.
Dipsea
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Okay, one more audio love story, just for fun. Dipsea is yet another great example of how sexy and fun it can be to tune in and hear some sexy voices talking about sexy things. With a clean and beautiful interface, rich and diverse casting, and thoughtful, consensual stories, you’ll love connecting and enjoying almost everything in their library.
Belesa
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Imagine if Pornhub or RedTube became much more female-friendly – that, dear friends, is Belesa. Welcome and enjoy.
Sssh.com
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Billed as “a smart and sexy love destination for women, by women”, Sssh.com allows you to access a variety of content, from videos to reading material, all geared towards women. You are sure to find a medium that does the job.
Confessions
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Created by feminist filmmaker Erika Lust, Confessions brings to life very real, very sexy stories submitted by various people. Yes, it is as hot as it sounds.
Literotica
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If words turn you on more than pictures, or you’re looking for a quieter, more stealthy porn session, head over to Literotica and let your imagination run wild thanks to the enticing stories submitted there.
Vivid-Ed
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Part of Vivid Entertainment and run by sex educator and podcaster Tristan Taormino, Vivid-Ed lives up to its name with articles, movies, photos and more to help you become your best, most powerful sexual self.
Node
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Whether you’re already a seasoned lover of kinky sex or just looking to test the waters, Node provides the videos you need to help you get where you want to go — sexually, that is.
Dusk
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Dusk is a subscription-based site that offers a variety of educational articles, as well as very sexy, female-oriented viewing material.
