We all know that moms are the ultimate multitaskers. They are the CEO of the household, the emotional anchor, and the person who always makes sure everyone else’s needs are met before their own.
But here’s the thing, moms: You can’t pour from an empty cup.
This Mother’s Day, I want you to change the narrative. It’s not just about a bouquet of flowers (although they are lovely), it’s about Radical Self-Care. I’m talking about the kind of wellness that goes beyond a face mask—the kind that prioritizes your pelvic health, your sleep, and yes, your pleasure. Because at the end of the day, enjoyment is wellness.
Whether you’re shopping for yourself (we highly recommend it!), your own mom, or a motherly figure in your life, I’ve curated a list of the absolute best gifts to help anyone reconnect with their body and feel better.
THE GOLD STANDARD OF RELAXATION
Magic Wand Waterproof
If there’s one item that belongs on every woman’s nightstand (or next to the bathtub), it’s this Magic Wand Waterproof. Although it is one of the most powerful vibrators in the world, I would like to let you in on a little secret: It is also the ultimate recovery tool.
Think of it as a high quality massage gun. If you feel tension in your neck, shoulders or lower back after a long day, the magic wand vibrations are unmatched for muscle relaxation. Because it is waterproof, it is the perfect companion for a nice relaxing bath.
Why we love it: It is one of the highest quality massages on the market (and personally, my favorite of all time). It is rechargeable, wireless and fully submersible. Giving it to a mom gives her the power to fight stress throughout her body.
Buy the magic wand waterproof
THE “DO NOT INTERFERE” BATH RITUAL.
Sometimes the best gift for a mother is 30 minutes of uninterrupted peace and a locked door. Here’s how you can turn a simple bathroom into a complete spa experience:

STEP 1: SET THE SCENE. Start by lighting it Dame Massage Oil Wax. Let it burn while it fills the bath to fill the room with a relaxing aroma and melt the wax into a warm, skin-safe oil. Support it The luxurious bamboo bath tray to hold your book, your glass of wine, or your phone (to listen to the Sex With Emily podcast, obviously).
Buy the Dame Massage Oil candle
Buy the luxury bamboo bath tray
STEP 2: The warm-up. Before you get in the tub, apply it Morgasm Warming Massage & Body Oil on the neck or lower back. It creates a gentle sensation of heat that prepares the muscles for relaxation. Then use your own Magic Wand Waterproof over the oil to loosen any stubborn knots.
Buy Morgasm Warming Massage & Body Oil (NEW!)
Buy the magic wand waterproof
STEP 3: THE SOAK. Fly in Organic & Natural Bath Bombs to soften the water with essential oils and cocoa butter. This is the time for total silence. For a little extra hydration ‘down there’, use a few pumps Playground Love Sesh Unscented Lubricant for silky glide without fragrance, with soothing vitamin E, hyaluronic acid and bamboo extract.
Shop organic and natural bath bombs
Buy Playground Love Sesh Unscented Lubricant
STEP 4: THE FINAL SOURCE. Remember this cerium did you turn on at first? The wax is now transformed into a decadent, warming massage oil. After stepping out of the shower, gently pour it onto skin for a deep, hydrating finish that feels like a professional spa treatment.
THE “KEGEL THRONE”
BTL EMSELLA CHAIR
Pelvic floor health is so important. After giving birth or during menopause, many women experience a weakened pelvic floor, which can lead to “leaks” or reduced sensation during sex. Fortunately, there are ways to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles.
Enter it BTL Emsella. Affectionately known as the ‘Kegel Throne’, this non-invasive treatment allows you to sit clothed while High Intensity Focused Electromagnetic (HIFEM) technology induces thousands of pelvic floor muscle contractions.
Who is it for: Any mom who wants to regain her confidence, improve her bladder control and increase her sexual response. It’s a literal game changer for your fitness “down there.”
Learn more about BTL Emsella
WOMEN’S HEALTH ESSENTIALS
Antevorta At Home Package
Intimate care is an essential part of a daily wellness routine. THE Antevorta At Home Package offers luxurious washes and sprays with balanced pH rused in Traditional Chinese Medicine. These products are pideal to help women maintain a sense of freshness and comfort, especially for those dealing with dryness or sensitivity.
Buy Antevorta At Home Package (NEW!)
Women’s Perimenopause Skin Savers Kit
Hormonal changes appear first in the skin. The Womaness Perimenopause Skin Savers Kit is a high-performance skincare specially formulated for the hydration and elasticity needs of women in their 40s and beyond, helping them feel radiant and confident.
Buy the Womaness Perimenopause Skin Savers Kit
For moms:
This year, give yourself permission to want what you want. Whether it’s high-tech pelvic therapy or a legendary “neck tension” stick, you deserve to feel alive, relaxed and fulfilled.
Happy Birthday to all the moms out there (including dog moms, like me)! You deserve to be taken care of.
Check out the Mother’s Day collection at Shop Sex With Emily.


