“I’m so tired to understand what’s about dinner.”
I hear you. I was too.
Day by day. If you feed a family, you should consider your preferences, nutritional needs and timetables.
After a while, what started as a joy became a chore.
But we have to eat, so we have two options: to design meals in advance or improvise.
Planning of meals makes sense in theory
Know the reasons: You will probably eat better. You will shop with a list, you only buy what you need, saving money and wasting less. You can get out of a route. Save yourself annoying 5 pm The grocery stops. And avoid stress of deciding what is about dinner when the scars are delayed.
So why do many people resist meal planning?
One reason is the fatigue of the decision.
In his book in 2004, The paradox of the choice: because more is lessPsychologist Barry Schwartz suggested that too many choices contribute to stress and fatigue.
When you think about what to do for dinner, you have the whole internet to choose from. You probably have thousands of recipes in your hands in glittering cookbooks and magazines. You may have online recipes with bookmarks, printed or hanging from the beams.
However, you are somehow struggling to decide. How to choose the right one?
Enter the “Go-To” list
If you are familiar with my “go-to list” idea, skip forward to see how I use it differently now.
If you are not, it’s just a small collection of tested and true recipes that hit your “sweet spot” – healthy, tasty and right for you. “Right for You” can also include fast, simple and/or budget -friendly. Whatever it matters to you.
You can keep the Go-To list in a connecting material, a folder on your computer or by clicking on the “favorite” icon in a meal design app. The key is to limit it to the recipes you have made and enjoyed. Fewer options = less stress.
Keep the minute. The recipes you want to try can go elsewhere. The special dessert you make for Thanksgiving can go elsewhere. The Go-To list is just for your daily work recipes.
My list came full cycle
As a teenager, I gathered recipes in a binder, which evolved into two difficult -filled connectors. In 2013 I decided to scan all the recipes in a notes for the notes called Evernote, so I could search for them more easily and take them with me everywhere.
Now I have over 1200 recipes there! It is searched and wonderful but true to say, a little cumbersome.
I use a “Go-To” label for Go-To list items and often start a meal programming with filtering for this label. At the beginning of this year he had grown in 96 elements. Too many options!
So, a few weeks ago, I tightened the Go-To list and wrote the 64 recipes that remained, moving them to a binder on protective sheet and come full cycle.
The trick
After guiding a smart community member, when I need a meal plan, I take out the top recipes 1-2 from each category and Voila, the meal plan. Yes!
(The categories are: breakfast and snacks, legumes, poultry, cheese, fish and dishes.)

I move these six recipes to the front of the connecting material so that everyone in the family can see what we have and start dinner if I’m not home. Once we do, the recipe goes to the back of the section.
We just pass through them in turn. The benefits of planning meals without all the fatigue of the decision, releasing mental energy and time.
When we need a variety, I can always browse my collection for the biggest recipe or cookbook.
They simmer the sides
There is actually a piece of thought involved. Some of the recipes are complete meals and some are not. If I pull something that is not, say “hemp salmon”, we had this week, then I need a plate. Then I will pull the top from the dishes category, so we have a full meal.
What if I don’t want to make the meal on top?
Just skip it. You can save it for next week or move it to the back and put it on for a few weeks. If you still don’t want it, it’s really worth a point on your list?
What if I don’t have a go-to list?
Start one! Honestly, it’s so useful. Start by printing any recipes that work for you. If you like a recipe in a cookbook you have, you can make a copy for your own use.
Spend a page on the Go-To list for each of the simple meals you don’t need a recipe for. I have one called “Dinner Supper”, which reminds me that the family loves a beautiful boat with cheese, grapes, walnuts, hummus, carrot sticks, etc.
Write these things! What can you do for a prescription dinner? You probably have a larger repertoire than you think.
What if I really don’t have enough good health recipes?
It’s time to experiment! You can start with the 6-day “Go-To List” challenge, which guides you step by step through the creation of your list, sharing some of my favorite healthy meals in the heart.
Other good places to find healthy heart recipes include Canada Heart & Stroke Foundationthe American Heart Associationand popular bloggers like The Mediterranean dish and Byds budget. The latter are not explicitly healthy, but most of the recipes are.
You will try some new things and love them, others not so much. Continue to try! Save what you like in your growing list.
How big should my list be?
This depends on how much you like the variety. Some people are happy cycling through a week or two meals, some are bored quickly.
At the low end, just five basic meals will adjust you for a week that you can repeat. Something like this:
- A grain cup for Mondays without meat.
- A well -seasoned taco base for taco third
- A favorite pasta recipe for Wednesday
(Draw the residues for Thursday) - A Fish Friday recipe
(Wild Card Saturday – try something new or go out) - Great lot Sunday – something you can double and freeze.
With just five meals on your list, you can still mix things with different vegetables, proteins or salad.
If you want more variety, try to create it up to 20 meals you can rotate. This is a 4 -week cycle if you do five of them a week. Anyone else is a bonus!
Do I need categories?
Only if you want them. If your collection starts small, don’t worry about it. As it grows older, you may want to add them as I have, to ensure a variety of proteins throughout the week.
(Note that if you use partitions to separate your categories, you will need to buy extra partitions to see them beyond the sheets.)
4 Meal Planning Errors to Avoid
- Planning breakfast and lunch every day. If lunch planning for you means choosing three meals a day for a week, you may have to make 21 decisions. Decision paralysis! Instead, just note 1-2 items each for breakfast, lunch and snacks, and then grab five dinners from your collection and finished. (I have a printable meal design template that you can download here.)
- Design 7 dinners for a week. Will you cook something new every day, realistically? For most people, 3-5 meals a week is plenty. If you are shopping for 7, your refrigerator will overflow and risk wasting food.
- Being very ambitious with your planning. For me, on Saturday morning everything looks loud. So I have to be careful not to choose beautiful, elaborate meals that I will not be able to get out of work week later. Think about when you have realistic time to cook something new or more involved.
- Letting your list get very inflated. Don’t hesitate to get something if you’re tired of it. You can always move it back to your largest recipe collection. Once you have a good go-to list, they should be meals that we look forward to and make up without disruption.
Other meal design tips
- Try planning just 3-4 days at a time. It doesn’t have to be a whole week! It is easier to think about the next few days and you will probably lose less food.
- Make a big batch on the weekend. Freeze it in small portions (label well!)
- Keep it simple. Tuna sandwiches can be dinner. Chicken and salad from a bag counts. Heart-healthy food does not need to be fancy. If you take your fruits and vegetables, healthy proteins, whole grains and healthy fats without much sodium and sugar additives, make a great deal of.
Do you want help setting your list?
Sign up to challenge the 6-day list and in about 10 minutes a day you will have a Go-To list and you will be on your way to type it with heart healthy recipes.
The key is to print them
Then you can pull the top 4-5 recipes from your binder and your meal design is complete.
So much they have become digital, and I like my large collection of recipes, but there is something to be able to see these recipes on paper again and hold them in my hand. Is it just me?
What is your meal planning approach?
I would love to hear it, be it a 7 -day menu or a series of game decisions. If you have the dinner you found before things get stressed out, you have achieved meal planning! Gold star for you.
(And if you are the smart man who told me about this trick, let me know! Sorry my memory is not better.)

