Guest writer Camilo talks about his experience as a gay immigrant from Colombia: from maintaining his Latino culture to being diagnosed with HIV.
My name is Camilo, I am 35 years old and I was born in Colombia. I migrated to Australia in 2023. This is my journey in recognizing the importance of self-care, regular health checks and mental well-being.
Sexual health across borders
In Colombia, I tried several times to get access to PrEP but never succeeded. Administrative barriers, biased doctors and stigma made it difficult to take care of my sexual health.
When I immigrated to Australia, that experience was different. I found an inclusive, respectful, and effective health system where I could get tested for HIV and STDs without shame, get clear information, and access HIV prevention tools like condoms and lube and PrEP.
I was also diagnosed with HIV here. Although it was a difficult time, the way I was treated—humanely, professionally, and without judgment—gave me the strength I needed. I felt seen, supported and respected by the healthcare staff.
In Colombia, sexual health has been an ongoing battle. In Australia, it became an act of empowerment and self-care.
Sexuality and hookup culture
In Colombia, sexuality is often hidden and surrounded by prejudice, fear and guilt. Many homosexuals live out their sexuality in secret, in environments shaped by stigma and judgment. The media still uses HIV to shame people, which only adds to the stigma.
In Australia, I have found a more open and direct culture. Issues like PrEP, HIV, consent and pleasure are being discussed publicly through campaigns and services that make you feel supported.
It’s not perfect, but the difference is huge.
“Here I learned to talk openly about sex and instead of being afraid of it.”
When I feel a connection is getting serious, I’m honest about my situation. I believe that honesty (and safety to be honest) should be part of any respectful relationship.
What have I learned about sexual health since arriving in Australia?
Sexual health goes far beyond physical health. It includes mental, emotional and social well-being. Also, taking care of my sexual health means protecting myself and my community.
After receiving my diagnosis here, I learned that HIV does not diminish my worth. It reminded me that taking care of my body and mind is my right — and an essential part of dignity.
How has living with HIV affected my outlook on life and relationships?
I realized that my diagnosis was not the end – it was the beginning of a bigger journey.
I’ve learned that how I take care of myself has a direct impact on how I appear to others. This experience has made me more responsible and empathetic. By staying on HIV treatment, I can maintain an undetectable viral load and prevent further transmission in my community. I know now that I can live a long, healthy life and continue to pursue my dreams.
I chose not to share my diagnosis with my parents as their beliefs are rooted in stigma and fear. Instead, I have relied on a close circle of friends who support me unconditionally.
Living with HIV has also taught me to set boundaries, recognize true love, and build healthier relationships. By sharing my story, I hope to break down taboos and promote HIV education.
“I hope to inspire others to see that living with HIV is not the end, but an opportunity for healing and growth.”
Guidelines for other LGBTQ visa holders in Australia
My advice to newly arrived LGBTQ immigrants is: don’t be afraid to be yourself. Take care of yourself, connect with your communities and access sexual health services for support.
Try to leave behind the taboos and stigma that many of us bring from our homelands, especially in Latin America. Sexual health is not just physical — it also includes mental and emotional well-being.
Explore your sexuality in a safe way. Use HIV prevention (UVL, condoms, PrEP) and have honest conversations with your partners (even casual ones) about how you choose to stay safe. Mutual care and honesty are never things to be ashamed of.
Here, it is normal to say, “I just took a test.” This opening should be celebrated everywhere. Stay informed, seek support when needed and above all, be free to live as your authentic self.
Keeping that Colombian fire alive
“That Latin flavor, that Colombian fire—it’s in my blood and no distance can take it away.”
From childhood I was taught to stay true to myself. These values of integrity guided me to Australia and continue to shape my journey.
Living here has allowed me to challenge and redefine some of my beliefs. Instead of losing them, I gave them new meaning. I have learned to embrace my warmth, resilience and joy with greater maturity and openness.
Although the distance can be painful, my bond with my family remains strong. We don’t share everything — and some things are difficult — but the love remains. At the same time, I have created a select family of friends who celebrate who I am.
For me, it’s not about choosing between past and present, but living authentically in a way that honors both.
Thanks to Camilo for sharing his story! You can learn more about accessing free HIV treatment as a visa holder in this article.
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