Christie Kelf is a spiritual baby, fertility and birth guide based in Melbourne. Her role is to guide you through the spiritual and emotional aspects of fertility and birth to overcome obstacles and be in tune with your ideal reality. Understanding that we are holistic beings and all aspects of ourselves, our relationships, and our inner and outer realities are interconnected, Christie’s work extends far beyond the spiritual and emotional, and fertility and birth. She is able to help you work through physical, relational and personal issues that you may or may not realize are affecting your fertility or birth experience. Having been through her own fertility journey and with an innate fascination for womanhood and motherhood, Christie is extremely passionate about her work. Here she talks to The Natural Parent magazine about the inspiration behind it Maternal Consciousnessthe challenges she has overcome and her hopes and dreams for the future.
The Passion: What inspired you to create your business?
I started my own conception journey in 2020. My then husband and I were young and healthy. We did all the “right” things – preventive blood work, worked with a naturopath, perfected our diet, started high quality supplements, became a cycle tracker, got regular acupuncture and even saw a reiki practitioner. We have well and truly done everything we know how to do to be in optimal health physically, mentally and energetically. However, a year of trying came and went without success. Our doctor ran tests and everything came back better than normal. We were assured that we were both perfectly healthy. My husband’s sperm quality was above average, my eggs looked good and my tubes were clear. They just told us to keep trying.
I didn’t understand. Each month of trying and failing brought sadness and confusion. I felt this deep connection with my spirit baby for so long. I was convinced we were going to conceive so easily. I started looking for spiritual answers. I saw a psychic, a spiritual baby medium, and had a Quantum Consciousness session. None of them gave me the answers I was looking for. This is what made me realize there was a market for women like me – women who were looking beyond the physical world in their fertility journey. The one thing I knew after all I had been through was that we have the power to receive the knowledge we seek. We don’t need answers from someone else. No one is more connected to their baby than a mother, even before that baby is conceived.
I immersed myself deeply in the study of Ultimate Consciousness and Spinal Energy and reading many books. I learned all about emotional causes, trauma and the nervous system, quantum physics and alternate realities, and birth as a normal event. I meditated and received intuitive insight. I knew this was my calling. It quickly grew beyond fertility. I began to realize the enormity of what I was meant to bring forth with my business. In a particularly deep meditation, I received the message that we are now entering a new life cycle on Earth and the babies coming now and in the future are of a higher vibration than ever and are here to anchor new frequencies and ways of being. We are energetic beings and now I know that addressing the root cause on an emotional and energetic level is the only true way to heal.
I felt weak in my fertility journey. Like I had to look outside of myself to professionals for answers. All this time I had the answers inside me all the time. I was trying to have a baby with the wrong person. He was not meant to be the father of my babies. The moment I accepted this fact, my healing began in ways I can’t even begin to express. I am now becoming the mother I was meant to be and could not be in this past reality. I know that my babies, and so many of your babies, are destined to change the world. It is our job as their mothers to heal at the deepest levels and raise our vibration to match our spirit babies energetically so they can bring as much light as possible to this planet. This is not just about conceiving and giving birth to babies. This is about humanity. How could I not be passionate about it?
The launch: How did you get started in the first place?
Because I know it very deeply Maternal Consciousness it’s a soul purpose of mine, I thought I’d post a little on social media and things would take off for me. i was wrong Similar to my fertility journey, destiny doesn’t always mean easy. In hindsight, just as I’m glad I didn’t get pregnant when I so desperately wanted to, I’m glad my business didn’t take off so quickly. It has been, and continues to be, a beautiful unfolding, full of learning, shifting, and aligning with the entirety of what my work is truly meant to encompass. It was definitely a soft launch – a very soft, sustained launch that keeps unfolding. It really couldn’t be otherwise. This work doesn’t really fit the male mold of logic. I don’t feel the need to chase clients. The more I embrace my own feminine power and allow my business to run with its divine feminine, the more I attract aligned clients.
I have continued to study: becoming trauma informed, learning how to facilitate the physical experience, becoming a Pellowah technique practitioner, and currently doing my 200 hour yoga teacher training in my spare time. I have also created two higher consciousness journeys of my own to guide women in deeply connecting with their Spirit baby and clearing ancestral trauma. I am still creating more resources for women and couples to use throughout conception and pregnancy. I’m still very much in the early stages in the sense that while my services are fully developed, the business itself is still being established. I am really enjoying the process of starting my business and watching the women discover that I am ready and waiting to serve.
Innovation: What has been the biggest breakthrough for you with your business?
While my business is still in its very early stages, it has already seen many iterations since its initial conception. The biggest breakthrough for me was the realization that this work is about so much more than helping women conceive and deliver their babies. It is much more than connecting them with their spirit babies. This is a much bigger collective change that is happening. We are entering a new cycle on Earth and humanity, along with the planet itself, is rising to a new, higher frequency. In a way, it’s an upgrade. in another, it is a return to our natural state.
There are so many people on Earth right now that everyone is contributing to this change in their own way – each one as important as the next. Maternal Consciousness it’s my contribution. This business is not something I decided to do one day. it’s something I felt deeply invited to. I realize that my personal experiences with fertility were necessary for me to find and fulfill this calling. Once I understood the magnitude of the purpose behind my work, my mission became clear to me.
The babies that come and carry this frequency have their own special roles to play in this evolution of our planet. The reason healing and breaking generational cycles has become so popular today is because of this upgrade. It is our job to do this work because the next generations are not meant for this. Those who will bring these new frequencies have their own unique work for the betterment of humanity and to fulfill it, they simply will not have time to heal generational, birth or childhood traumas. They also need the mothers to be of high enough vibration to be able to capture, carry and give birth to all the light they will bring with them.
With this knowledge, I have been able to shape my services and products in a way that honors all the layers of what my job entails. I’m not just targeting women to conceive and deliver their babies. My goal is for women to conceive and deliver their babies from a certain frequency. Together we achieve this by addressing the nervous system, subconscious mind and energy body. Without this discovery, my work would not be as profound as it is now for myself or my clients.
Yin and Yang: How do you balance work and family?
I’m currently single with no kids, but I’ve been incredibly intentional about the setting since the beginning Maternal Consciousness knowing that I will be a wife and mother in the future. I have seen myself traveling and homeschooling while working, so creating a business model that has flexibility was paramount to me. This is a huge reason why my work is completely online – as well as the fact that I can reach women from all over the world this way. I will never exaggerate myself. To maintain my integrity with this project, it is so important to nurture myself, listen to my body and my menstrual cycle, and let my intuition guide me. I will never continue to push myself to take on clients if I’m not in the right place for it at the time. The services I provide and the women I serve are very important to me. It is of the utmost importance to ensure that I only appear to my business and clients with gusto.
I have deliberately rejected the patriarchal 9-5 business model, prioritizing flexibility and balance in honor of my womanhood and my future role as a wife and mother. I have rejected the belief that one has to work hard to succeed. I don’t work hard, I work aligned. Aligned with my purpose and aligned with myself. I’m not a man. I will never run this business the way men have designed the world of work. I am a woman, serving women in the most feminine space there is. I have a healthy masculinity within me that drives me forward and anchors my work in the natural, but my femininity is what determines when and how much I work to ensure that I always appear to my clients in the best possible way and the My feminine is what keeps me working in alignment with my mission so I can succeed.